I want to give you something that has been working very well for me and it will help you too, if you use it and it will help you to basically create real sexual tension in the conversation of the girl it will help you to turn women on, and it has to do with a really big principle in terms of the turning women on and creating sexual tension which is non-compliance.
Non-compliance is a crucial principle that you need when you want to attract women, you need to show that you are independent that you are not there just to comply with everything that she expects, so not complying with our expectations but also not with what she wants you to do, and very often the second you start to throw in some non-compliance into the interaction, whether that be verbally or physically things happen sparks fly, women go a little bit crazy for you, and this technique that I want to share with you is one of the easiest ways of doing this and having fun in the process, and literally when I’ve done this with women in the past when I’m demonstrating it with a friend of mine, she basically got all giggly and girly and you know couldn’t contain herself, and this is what happens sometimes with girls they’re just kind of get locked onto you and they’re just kind of wanna sometimes bite you it’s a bit like that in a good way not like Dracula or like a wild tiger would bite you.
Non-compliance is something that you want to get your head around you’re not on a job interview where you have to answer every question honestly and to the full extent of what the answer requires, you’re here to attract a girl, so that when she asks you a question like so what do you do for a living or any other such slightly boring question that sometimes people feel compelled to ask on a date, if you were just genuinely compliant you would answer well I am a software engineer at IBM and I’m doing this in this and my job is this blah blah blah, so instead you can bust a balls basically for asking and poor in question at the same time as having a lot of fun and at the same time as creating massive amounts of sexual tension and turning her on by non-complying with her question and give a different answer.
For example what I like to call ask a counter question so if she asked you what do you do for a living if you ask a counter question it might go something like this, what’s it worth to you to know that information oh what’s it to you, now what happens at that point now you might think that sounds really offensive difficult or like you want to fight with her if you do it with a smile, if you do it in a playful context or even if you do it without a smile for a moment and then look at her, and you’re creating a tension between the two of you, you’re creating the idea that you are not complying with her in a completely playful fun way now she has something to work with now you’re sparring with each other, dates are not about exchanging information, the main thing of a date is to explore the tension between the two of you to create some sexual tension to turn her on to make her want you don’t always answer every question a girl asks you, sometimes you might want to throw in a counter question, sometimes you want to do some other things, I’ll give you far more ways of dealing with questions in the people, you can also do this over text just don’t always comply find ways of being non compliant and play with what she expects, and then do something different.
You want to think of this as a boxing match in some way it’s a little sparring that you’re doing, and any conversation with a girl should be sparring or next level lot you want to think of it as foreplay if this sounds like a fun thing to do.